As we explore balance in life, we’ve already discussed the importance of balancing the Mind, Body, and Spirit. Now, let’s address the final pillar: Community. I recently spoke with two young women in their 20s who shared their feelings of awkwardness when meeting new people. One said she would like to improve her communication skills when meeting new people. They had grown up in a world influenced by cell phones and social media, and COVID-19 had magnified their sense of disconnection. Despite being digitally connected, we’ve become more and more disconnected from face-to-face interactions. In today’s world, technology makes communication easier, but we so often overlook the importance of in-person connections. Humans were designed to be part of a community. This is evident in the Bible when it says, “It is not good for man to be alone…”
Your People
Spending time with others offers more than just company—it provides support during tough times and celebrates the good times with you. “Your people” are those who understand you and stand by you, especially when life gets challenging. I know who my people are…do you know yours?
Different Kinds of Communities
Communities come in many forms. There are geographic, interest-based, professional, and many other communities. I have many hobbies and love people, so I’m part of many communities—from workout groups to Bible study—and they all add value to my life.
Volunteering Together
Volunteering promotes connection and fulfillment, broadening your perspective by interacting with people from different walks of life. It doesn’t just help others; it helps you grow as well. Volunteering can be fun when done with friends, old or new, and offers opportunities for learning and growth. Even yard work and trash pick up is fun when you do it with others!
Promoting Selflessness
Being part of a community encourages selflessness. When we engage with others, we shift our focus from our own concerns to the needs of others. Helping others brings joy and teaches us that the act of giving is more fulfilling than personal gain.
The Importance of Community
Whether you’re 20 or 90, finding your people and avoiding isolation is essential. The four pillars—Mind, Body, Spirit, and Community—are necessary for balance. By being intentional and giving each of these areas our time, we can work toward a well-rounded, fulfilling life.
